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We are not God, therefore, we cannot reach everyone but we can be there for someone. If you cannot do it for everyone, don't let it stop you from doing it for someone.
Excellence launches, perfectionism lags. Excellence energizes, perfectionism drains. Excellence encourages others, perfectionism discourages others.
We fear failure and tend to believe that we’re only as good as our last accomplishment. It’s a challenge that is deeply ingrained in us. We can’t snap our fingers and magically change our way of thinking.
Vulnerability is being real with a real-life person. It's saying to a trusted friend who has earned the right to hear your honesty -- not just anyone and not everyone -- that you are not doing ok.
When someone tells you to “man up”; “stop crying”; “stop being so dramatic”, I would wager a hefty bet that it’s in pursuit of their own comfort, not yours.
For years, you might have been defining yourself by your dysfunction. Our identity can become consumed by our issues. You might have told yourself a summary of what you are and what you’re not based on the experiences you’ve had, BUT not on the potential that you carry.
Two things drive our life: achievement and approval. You might get a glimpse of happiness from your achievements, but what you'll learn as you get older, is every time you reach one, you'll just make another goal that doesn't lead to freedom. You'll learn to realize that none of this will make you happy. The satisfaction is temporary.
No one can be a ray of sunshine 24/7; humans just don’t work that way. In fact, paying attention and processing your emotions as they come and go may help you better understand yourself, and those around you.
Positivity itself is not toxic, but positivity can become toxic when we address somebody with a cliché, advice or a statement, and it leaves them feeling like they don't have room to be vulnerable, explain themselves, or share how they're feeling; when we don’t leave space for validation or understanding.
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TESTIMONIALS
Steve presented his 'Generations in the Workplace' session to open the first ever NM Counties Finance/Purchasing Affiliate Conference which brought together local government leaders from across New Mexico. The session was exactly what was needed to energize the group and set the tone for a productive conference. Steve was engaging, entertaining, relatable, and willing to share his knowledge of concepts often overlooked but so important to the success of any relationship. Conference attendees stayed glued to their chairs -not one bathroom break or phone call was taken- and continued to talk fondly about the experience throughout the conference. He gained more than a few fans and we look forward to having him at future conferences!
Jennifer Gallegos
Budget Manager
Bernalillo County
Steve Sauceda is amazing, dynamic and engaging! He always receives some of the highest remarks from Leadership New Mexico participants. Don’t hesitate, book him today!
Diego Espinoza
President
Leadership New Mexico
Steve Sauceda is an excellent communicator, delivers clear and impactful presentations, captivating audiences with ease. He has great stage presence and commands attention and confidence, engaging listeners with charisma and authority. He connects with his audience through compelling stories and interactive elements, creating memorable & enjoyable experiences for all ages.
Bryan Burk
Director of Student Ministries
Lakeridge Methodist Church
Steve Sauceda is not only authentic but funny and charismatic. He demonstrates vulnerability by showing his true self. In those moments, he connects with our students on a deeper level. In those moments, he tears down barriers and allows them to be brave and vulnerable. MyPower is forever grateful for the countless times Steve has shown up to inspire, encourage, and motivate our students to step out of their comfort zone and dream big!
Danielle Hernandez
Executive Director
MyPower, Inc.
Steve’s willingness to share his knowledge and expertise helps our business grow. He has a unique talent to boost self-confidence and inspire others to improve. His openness to learning from others, even while coaching them, empowers personal growth.
Mark Ray
Director of Safety Operations
Legacy Safety & Consulting
IPS has used Steve on numerous occasions to speak to our leadership about different challenges in the workplace. Steve continues to deliver exceptional presentations that truly engage our employees and encourages participation. The feedback from our employees has always been extremely positive and we always look forward to Steve’s future presentations.
Donnie Graham
Chief Operating Officer
IPS, Inc.
Steve came in after a five-year hiatus to speak to a city staff that had been gutted by turmoil and turnover. Rather than come across as a motivational speaker, he connected with our employees using realistic examples and truisms about leadership which really resonated with us. I have never seen a speaker at one of our events keep an audience as engaged as Steve did.
David Miranda
City Manager
City of Lovington
The Eunice Health Clinic recently had Steve speak at our staff meeting. We are in the season of change here at the clinic and felt like we all needed some encouragement, reassurance, and challenged thinking. He delivered on all fronts. I feel like our staff left the meeting refreshed, energized and more of a team than we were prior. He was a pleasure to work with from the very beginning all the way to the end. We look forward to having him speak again in the future.
Casey Gage
Finance Specialist
Eunice Health Clinic
Just like the earth moves in specific seasons, so our lives move in a seasonal rhythm. The secret to success is knowing what season you are in and recognizing when that season has come to an end. When you operate in the right season, you’ll be operating at your best. We must understand our time.